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Friday, 28 September 2012

Mirror: Beautiful is not pretty!

Ever wondered how did you feel when you looked your own reflection in the mirror for the first time as a kid ? Of course, you don't. You were so small back then. Observe a child and get to know. The curiosity of who is there the other side and the happiness that gleams in the eyes when finally the mystery is solved is all what goes through the heart of the little child in the first meeting with the mirror.

But then time passes.....

You grow up as a teen and all the raging hormones overpower you. You do not like what is there in the mirror. You don't like that excess hair on the face, that fat nose, uneven chin and the pimple sprouting on the cheeks which seems bigger the longer you stare at it. You seem a bit too fat even when you are underweight and the list goes on. You go to the supermarket, surf the beauty section and get all those beauty masks and creams that came up in the advertisements. Come back home, whine about how ugly and fat you are and waste your teen life in the front of the mirror trying to look pretty and never been convinced enough.

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This is what teen life of most of the girls is. Lack of self confidence. They are scared to even look their own reflection in the mirror always convinced, they are not good enough. That they may not be accepted in the society, that they won't find their love otherwise, that they would be consider as a geek. All this and failing to realize, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and is only skin deep. Nice quote, huh ? It's true.

You spend majority of your time thinking and caring about how you look than actually finding out your true inner self and that is what creates so much problem. Surely, people would consider the looks in the first meeting but when they actually get to know how beautiful you are from the inside, being pretty doesn't matter. Don't mistake "Beautiful" and "Pretty". They both are two different terms. "Pretty" means the outer appearance and "Beautiful" is the is the inner one, your soul, your nature.

It makes me feel sad when I see young teens not happy with their body, their face. C'mon girlies, accept yourself what you are and the world would accept you.  Love yourself and the reflection you see in the mirror.

P.S Inner appearance always weigh more than the outer one.

No no one is actually gonna like you if you are miss world or something and doing drugs and getting treatment from the rehab.

P.P.S You are not defined by the reflection in the mirror.


Monday, 24 September 2012

A quick update !! :)

Hello friend's! Let smile be your style today. It's been long I have updated this blog. Just a quick reminded that I'm still alive :P

Lot's of happening in my life and being the last year of school life, it's more hectic. Sorry for not posting often. Let me go through this year, by the next I would be again back with a smashing bang.

I guess, I will do a blog post soon with my newly clicked pictures of nature ? What say ? ;)

Would like to thank all my readers who are still part of this blog. 413 followers, 150 readers each day and the blog just reached it's 55000 pageviews mark. Isn't that just so awesome ?

Also received quite a few e-mails from you all today. Thank you for being so encouraging and sweet to this 17 year old teen. Motivates me a lot.

 If you have any question's or need to talk to me:
i_m_perfectly_imperfect@yahoo.com is my e-mail id :)

Meanwhile, I no longer have access to my Facebook account because Facebook has problems with me using my screen name. Hopefully in a week or two, I'll figure out how to come back on the social networking site again.

I hope you all are doing really well, autumn is here and winter's are not that far away. I can't wait to wear my winter uniform again. It's so fashionable :P
Not promoting this post anywhere on the web except here. This is just a quick update for all my reader's. Thank you again so much for all your love and encouragement. Definitely means a lot! :)

Signing off with a picture made by Chibird. I love her doodles, so cute! ^.^